If you’re like one of the many people who’ve had sex with someone, whether they were your friend or someone you barely knew, you may regret it. You’re feeling what most of those people felt, so you’re not alone. Perhaps you believe that having sex too soon will ruin your chances of having a relationship. Maybe you think that holding out will ensure the next person will stick around. Having sex too soon could be bad for a relationship. However, it depends on the individuals because everyone is different. Plus, there’s no perfect time to have sex if you really want someone and they are into you ..read more

If you’re not getting the love you deserve, it means you haven’t found the right person to invite into your life. Maybe, it’s time to change how you think. Concentrate on loving yourself as a way to attract the right person. In this blog, I’m going to talk about what I learned from being single, taking responsibility for my own happiness and finding the love you want. Learning from Your Mistakes In life there are two kinds of people: those who love you and listen to your problems, and those who create a distance between them and you. Unfortunately, there are more of the latter category than th ..read more

It sucks that toxic people have a way of bringing out the worst in us, and it seems like you can’t get away from them. Toxic people are at the workplace, at the church house, and even the classroom. They can be manipulative and controlling little witches/mitches and are often skilled at making us feel like we need them.  These people cause us to have gray hairs, ulcers, self-medicate, and in general, make us feel like poop. They are our family members, best friends, and even esteemed coworkers. They are the kind of people who cause you to feel like something is wrong with you even though ..read more

I’m not sure what it is, but there’s something about older women that just screams “goddess.” Maybe it’s the way their skin seems to glow or the way the jaguar moves with such grace. Or maybe it’s the way they love themselves. They have no shame about expressing that love in all aspects of life, including sex. Whatever the reason, it seems like older women are better in bed —period! Have a better sense of themselves Older women are better in bed because they are more comfortable with their sexuality. Women who are confident in their sexuality know what they like and how to ask for it. This sel ..read more

Do men benefit more from relationships than women? Well, let’s see. Women cook, clean, do the laundry, shop for the home, take care of the children, often work outside the home and, take care of their spouses. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure this one out – but keep reading to find out if our answers match.   Men gain more from marriage than women do because married men are happier and healthier than their single counterparts. Married men may earn more and are likely to be in the top one percent of earnings. Surprisingly, unhappy marriages tend to be good for men, too, be ..read more

It’s the little things that glue couples together. However, there are three dating trends that may get in the way of your relationship goals. Let’s look at the ones I believe could become problematic for the romantic at heart. The “Love Bombing” Sociopath Love Bombing signs can be hard to recognize, especially when a person is telling you everything you want to hear. The clues are in phrases like “I haven’t felt this way in so long,” “I’ve never felt this way before,” or “I know we just met, but I need you.”  Dating trends like this can be manipulative. Someone’s over-the-top behavior pat ..read more

You didn’t notice right away, but everybody saw him staring at you. Your friends say he’s gorgeous, you say he’s not. He could be attractive, butt ugly, or absolutely hot but only you know what makes a man sexy. I considered the question for a moment as I daydreamed about the sexiest man alive.  Is it crazy that I can’t identify his eyes despite the fact I was looking directly at him? I also saw his hair, but I couldn’t tell what color it was. I saw his smile, too, but I couldn’t tell you if he had any cavities. Lord have mercy… What was wrong with me? I am not a little girl anymore! What ..read more

When I initially considered my connection with food, I didn’t know that eating with intention was an actual thing. I just knew I needed to do extensive research on mindful eating and be more conscious about what I put in my body. I knew something about the concept, but what I knew only scratched the surface. What I do know is that God gave us everything so that we could sustain life, to conquer illnesses. The medicines doctors prescribe come with warning labels. It’s scary! The choices I was making were drastically affecting me.  If you’ve suffered because of your eating habits or your li ..read more

Affirmations for Self Love to Boost Confidence We toss words like love and self-love around like it has no meaning. People say it without regard sometimes, but they are right, you should love yourself more. But we rarely ask the questions that matter like “Why don’t you love yourself… Why are you so hard on yourself?’  While it’s difficult to love someone when they don’t love themselves, these questions can open an ugly box of worms. When answered, it could solve riddles. But before we get into affirmations for self love or even start the healing process, we need to explain the definition ..read more

How to Trim Your Beard for the First Time   Just when you thought the Beard Gang had retired, they resurface. It’s okay. We are all enjoying the view. Some of us, including women, are learning how to trim a beard for the first time. We’re finding out that beards can make a huge difference in how a man looks. What’s the difference? It’s the growing a beard stages for me. Plus, the way he wears his beard attracts women.  Have you seen beard styles for older men? The pics really show how most men take pride in their facial hair and put in the effort to polish off their beard styles ..read more