Gay Men and How to Be a Better Lover
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by Ken
2w ago
Gay Men and How to Be a Better Lover In my work as an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist specializing in gay men as individuals, couples, and polycules, I recently had a client want to work with me on his very straightforward goal to “be a better lover,” or to be more sexually skilled, fulfilled, and fulfilling to his partner(s) in the bedroom. It’s a simple request, and something that a sex therapist or coach can do, if they have the training and experience and overall aptitude for it.  It was important for this client to have someplace to bring his candid concerns to, and to have someone af ..read more
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Gay Men and Wealth: How to Cope with Rewards and Challenges
Gay Therapy LA
by Ken
1M ago
Gay Men and Wealth: How to Cope with Rewards and Challenges Gay Men and Wealth has both rewards and challenges that gay life coaching can help with. In my experience (32 years in 2024) as a gay men’s specialist psychotherapist in California and gay men’s specialist life/career/executive/relationship coach worldwide, I have enjoyed a great diversity, even within my specific niche.  I’ve noticed over the years, though, that in addition to working with gay men as individuals, couples, and polycules, I’ve developed an expertise even more specifically in working with affluent gay men who often ..read more
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Seven Ways to Enhance a Gay Men’s Relationship for Satisfaction and Longevity
Gay Therapy LA
by Ken
1M ago
Seven Ways to Enhance a Gay Men’s Relationship for Satisfaction and Longevity Over my thirty years of providing gay men’s relationship therapy in West Hollywood and Los Angeles, as well as relationship coaching for gay men nationally and globally, and sex therapy for gay men, I have gained the benefit of experience working with so many gay couples and even gay polycules to learn, over time, what “works” and what doesn’t in helping gay men improve their relationships, through large conflicts or even just small, incremental improvements. As I like to joke,”the older I get, the stronger my opini ..read more
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Gay Men and the Emotional Benefits of Kink Play
Gay Therapy LA
by Ken
2M ago
Some people don’t realize that in addition to sexual variety, gay kink play offers emotional benefits that go beyond the bedroom.  Gay Men and the Emotional Benefits of Kink Play As a gay men’s specialist psychotherapist for over 30 years (32 in 2024), as well as a gay men’s life/career/relationship coach, and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I’ve always enjoyed providing content in support of gay men’s well-being that is generally not found in many, or any, other locations, including my gay men’s therapy colleagues who are newer to the field.  Today, I’d like to share about a topi ..read more
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Gay Men and “Santa Daddy”
Gay Therapy LA
by Ken
3M ago
Gay Men and “Santa Daddy” As a gay men’s specialist psychotherapist, coach, blogger, and podcaster, it’s sometimes a challenge to keep coming up with “content”, especially for the “seasonal” material each year around the holiday season.  I was thinking of what I might share with you when I heard Cher’s new Christmas album, playing her version of “Santa Baby,” a 1950s song first made famous by another gay icon of generations past, Eartha Kitt, a sultry Black singer and civil rights activist. That song, if you don’t know it, is about a coy woman singing to Santa about the “adult toys” she w ..read more
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Gay Men and How to Reach Your Full Potential
Gay Therapy LA
by Ken
4M ago
Gay Men and How to Reach Your Full Potential From my perspective as a long term (31 years in 2023) gay men’s specialist psychotherapist and life/career/relationship coach, I often focus on helping gay men reach your full potential.  Another way of saying this, which has been a long-term theme of my practice, is to help you close the gap between how life is, and how you would like it to be, in important “domains” of your life such as your mental health, health, sex life, career, relationships, finances, spirituality, and role in the community.  That’s also the theme of my 2013 book ..read more
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What is Daily Mental Health for Gay Men?  ...
Gay Therapy LA
by Ken
5M ago
What is Daily Mental Health for Gay Men?   Recently, on a Monday morning, I woke up ready to face the week and preparing to get my head in the game doing my work as a gay men’s specialist psychotherapist and life/career/relationship coach.  I had my usual morning routine, and a thought came to me about what is involved in adopting a good mind-set for the week.  What is “daily mental health?” I asked myself.  This differs for people in different circumstances, ages, geographic locations, privileges, challenges, and the balance of life-enhancing experiences versus life-de ..read more
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Lessons for Gay Men from the “On the Boulevard” Musical
Gay Therapy LA
by Ken
7M ago
Lessons for Gay Men from the “On the Boulevard” Musical Today, I’d like to share a different kind of perspective, where instead of speaking from my role as a long-term (31 years in 2023) specialist psychotherapist, sex therapist, and life/career/relationship coach for gay men and gay male relationships, worldwide, I’d like to a share a bit of how those professional roles overlap with my avocation or hobby, which is composing music and creative writing. I’ve written a Young Adult novel which is in its final stages, and I’ve already published a self-help book in 2013 for a general audience (not ..read more
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Gay Men and Knowing Your Sexual Self
Gay Therapy LA
by Ken
8M ago
Gay Men and Knowing Your Sexual Self In the years since I got my credential as an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist from the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, I’ve been honored to work with gay male clients who are sharing with me some of their most private concerns about not only their overall mental health and well-being (which I’ve been a specialist in for 31 years in 2023), but more specifically in sexual topics, whether in sex therapy, sex education coaching, couples therapy, relationship coaching, or similar item in my range of professional services offered ..read more
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Gay Men: Superheroes as Role Models
Gay Therapy LA
by Ken
8M ago
Gay Men: Superheroes as Role Models As a gay men’s specialist licensed psychotherapist and life/career/relationship coach, I reflect on the many influences that inform my values, opinions, interests, skills, perspectives, challenges, and rewards, and how I bring those to my work with clients in my psychotherapy and coaching services practice. Today, I’d like to share and discuss a topic that I find interesting but only has scant discussion, which is how superhero comics characters (and their villains) influence gay men’s lives, and the lessons we can take from the depictions of these characte ..read more
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