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Why ‘Hoovering’ Isn’t Validation! Hoovering, at first, can feel like validation. Finally! The narcissist has realized your worth and wants to make it right. Or, is that right? Actually, this is wrong. COMPLETELY WRONG. Before we get into why it is wrong, let’s start off with what hoovering is. Hoovering is a coined term in the narcissistic abuse recovery community that refers to when a narcissist does things to suck their target back into the abusive relationship with them. The reason for the term hoovering derives from the Hoover vacuum cleaner which is symbolic for sucking the target back i ..read more

Researching Narcissism Online Keeping yourself protected in your recovery journey is something you would think would not be an issue because you would assume that everyone who posts a video, writes a blog, or even creates a vlog with their own personal experience is just like you, a target of narcissistic abuse. WRONG! With the growing awareness of this topic, the narcissists are realizing their covers are being blown worldwide so they are doing what they know to do best…. blend in. This means to pretend to be victims of the very abuse they inflict upon others. It is sad but unfortunately a r ..read more

Boundaries with the Jezebel Spirit If you are reading this, you are most likely all aware of what the Jezebel Spirit is or what the secular world refers to as Narcissistic Personality Disorder. However, if you are not, a brief introduction on what the Jezebel Spirit is. The Jezebel Spirit is a manipulating, controlling spirit that dominates a person’s life by affecting their emotions, provoking their reactions, and creating chaos in their life. Usually, the Jezebel Spirit appears in one’s life as “Godsent” because of their idealization of you at the beginning of the relationship which is real ..read more

Covert vs Overt Jezebel Spirit To understand the differences between the covert Jezebel spirit and overt Jezebel spirit is really best explained on how to spot it. Overt symptoms can be seen or understood better in our earthly realm whereas covert symptoms are more secretive and can be best understood in the spiritual realm. People can describe overt symptoms and others can recognize the symptoms as abuse whereas people who usually try to describe covert symptoms appear scattered brained, petty, or crazy when explaining covert symptoms to others. Most people do not recognize covert abuse as a ..read more