The Strangest Secret Earl Nightingale created one of the great motivational works of history. “The Strangest Secret” began as a tool to motivate his insurance company sales force. It is now a motivational standard. What is the Strangest Secret? 1) You become what you think. 2) You must pay the price. 3) We must control our thoughts. 4) Cut away all limitations of the mind. 5) Set a clearly defined goal.  6) Act promptly when your path is clear. 7) Save at least 10% of every dollar. What do you want more than anything else? Commit today to do more than you must to get it ..read more

Giving Up What You Are Not Are you striving for something different and confused about where to begin? I have a client who, after years of poor eating habits, had become over 100 pounds overweight. She decided to get healthy. She also had no idea how. My advice was simple. If your mind is telling you something you are doing is NOT who you are – just give up what you are NOT. In her case, she knew lousy food because she had been eating it for years. She gave it up.  She didn’t have time to go to the gym. She gave up what was stopping her. Too many activities were stealing the time she nee ..read more

Accepting Your Passion No matter what activities you do in life, the goal of every road you travel should lead to happiness. After all, we don’t pursue ambitions, so we can be unhappy – right? With that in mind, your journey will be more pleasant and the outcome more predictable if you: 1) Begin by accepting WHO you are right now. It’s okay to desire change, but you begin where you are today. 2) Clearly understand WHAT you are doing when you are authentically being YOU. The core of who you are is not likely to change. More likely, you are seeking to get back to your real self. 3) Decide when ..read more

Make The Year About Experience Happy New Year… almost. As we begin a brand new year, I have a question for you – What experiences will you have this year? Life is more fun when you choose a conscious experience. That requires planning, awareness, and setting expectations. As you set and achieve your goals, be sure to pay attention to your focus. While you take action, dial in your direction and create the authentic experience, you desire. It’s your choice, after all.  Jumping to the destination and skipping the experience of getting there takes all the fun out of your journey. Savor ever ..read more

What’s Your Big Ass Goal for 2023? A new year is about to begin, and you may be setting goals. Is it time for a refresher? 1) Goals should be more significant than where you are today. They should stretch you to reach another level. Items on your To-Do list are not goals. 2) Goals should be timely. While you may have many goals, only a few can demand your attention at any one time. Attempting to focus on too many goals simultaneously slows progress.  3) Big goals begin with decisive clarity and continue with strong commitment. One more thing. Be specific about your goals, how you describ ..read more

Secret to Doing What You Love Have you ever heard anyone say, “Do what you love, and you’ll never work another day in your life?” You’ll work harder than you ever have – but you will LOVE every minute of it. Most people never have that experience because they miss the one thing they must do to live on their terms. “If you want to do what makes your heart sing, you have to do what makes the bell ring!” Yes. Making the bell ring means making money. After all, you must fund your fun – right? Have you ever been inside a Harley-Davidson dealership when a new motorcycle sells? They ring a bell. Not ..read more

Setting The Stage For 2023 With a new year almost upon us, it’s time to crank up those 2023 goals. One of the most natural methods of achieving success is to stick to tried and true. That doesn’t mean you can’t move toward something more meaningful. You forgo new knowledge and skill and leverage what you already understand. No-brainer success assumes: 1) You already have experience and wisdom. You will learn any new skill if, and only if needed.   2) You will choose the path of least resistance. The goal is to get the results you want in the fastest period. No distractions. No zig-zaggin ..read more

Committed to Your Goals in 2023 Woody Allen said, “Half of success is showing up.”  I’ve thought about that quote many times over the years. There was something about its logic that didn’t match up with my day-to-day experience.  Don’t get me wrong, no matter what you want to do in your life, showing up is the first step in getting it. But I’ve shown up many times and ended up going home with the prize that I so much wanted. I’ve also seen others convinced that they’ll advance toward their goals if they show up. Instead, they end up disappointed with their results. So, if showing up ..read more

Power of ONE Idea Are you the kind of person who is searching high and low for anything that will make you happy, get you married, bring in more money, or allow yourself to ignore the crazy world we live in today?  If I may, it’s time that stop searching and do this – Accept that ONE good idea, ONE good realization, or ONE good action can and will change your life instantly.  Before I continue, I’m not saying to focus on ONE thing as you’ll find in Gary Keller’s book. Nope. The ONE thing I’m talking about comes way before that. It has nothing to do with productivity, and it has ever ..read more

Gift of Making a Decision As we approach the most spiritual time of year, I find more and more of my thoughts are focused on what my future will bring. But instead of drafting a list of goals, my mind seems to settle into a different place— What if I could give myself a gift that would instantly give me what I want? What if I don’t have to chase my dreams and start living them instead? What if there was nothing in my way – ever? While that way of thinking may seem out of touch in today’s world, it’s not. It happens every day for millions of people worldwide, and it can happen for you too. He ..read more