If you’re a smart, desirable, young gay man thinking about scoring yourself a sugar daddy, you’re far from alone. As amazing as traditional dating and relationships can be when things are really working out, those things can also come with a lot of stress and uncertainty. The allure of sugar dating is that — similarly to a lifestyle that revolves around casual sex and hooking up instead of commitment — it promises to put a stop to everything you hate about traditional dating, including the drama and the heartbreak. That makes it a great fit for those who prefer to keep things casual without a ..read more

If you can’t imagine life without Grindr and Scruff, then you don’t need to be told there’s a lot to like about hookups when they actually go well. You get laid by a hot guy you’re wildly attracted to, but it’s understood that the two of you don’t owe each other anything else. You have your good time and then go about your separate lives… or at least that’s the way you hope things will go. As awesome as great hookups can be, the really hellish ones are often bad enough to make you rethink casual sex altogether. Thankfully there is such a thing as a game plan that can make it easier to shut a ..read more

Whether you’re taking a new relationship partner to bed for the very first time or just hooking up with someone hot for something to do on a Saturday night, sleeping with someone new naturally inspires a lot of different emotions. It’s exciting and sexy – the type of experience that really gives you a high. However, it can also be anxiety-inducing, scary, and nerve-wracking. You pretty much always want the experience to be good for both of you, whether you’re planning on seeing the person again or not, so a little preparedness goes a long way. The following are a few unspoken, unwritten rules ..read more

As useful as popular dating apps like Tinder can be when you're looking for the right connection, they're definitely notalways the right fit for everyone. Sometimes a guy just wants some easy, no-strings-attached action with another guy without having to figure out who on a given platform is actually looking for the same thing. Making the switch to a platform that's all about gay hookups and nothing but is a good place to start for sure. However, there's more you should be looking for if you're serious about having the best possible user experience. Here are a few essentials to start with. 1 ..read more

There are lots of reasons why you might not want to just come right out and ask someone whether they're gay. Maybe you're super curious about a coworker or acquaintance you're crushing on, but don't want to risk making them uncomfortable. Maybe you're just not the type to ask people really personal questions about their love lives, but that hardly means you don't want to know. Thankfully there are a lot of little tells and habits most non-open gay or bi guys have in common, so understanding what to look for can be pretty helpful in making an educated guess. The following are some good example ..read more

Have you ever known or met someone who identified as sexually fluid? Perhaps you've even wondered whether or not you could be described as sexually fluid yourself. "Sexual fluidity" is something we're hearing about more and more often these days as people become increasingly more open about their sexuality, but many people still aren't quite sure what the term really means. So what is sexual fluidity anyway, and what is it like to date someone who's sexually fluid? What do gay and bisexual men need to know about sexually fluidity if they're interested in exploring someone who identifies that ..read more

Dating is already pretty tough for lots of reasons. Between trying to figure out what’s going on in another person’s head, meeting suitable people to even consider, and finding the time to date in the first place, you definitely have your work cut out for you. Now add being gay to the mix and things get even more complicated. If you’re like most gay men, you didn’t grow up seeing what you’re looking for modeled in the media you consume or in other couples around you. That can make it a challenge to figure out what you’re really looking for, especially when you consider most other gay men are ..read more

If you’re like a lot of gay guys, you probably have a love/hate relationship with gay dating apps and with good reason. On the one hand, you can’t beat the convenient access to hundreds of eligible gay men in search of the same thing you are. On the other, it can sometimes feel difficult to impossible to really stand out in such a huge crowd. So how can you make sure yours is the profile that stops a serious hottie in his tracks when he’s mindlessly swiping through an endless selection of options? Sure, it helps to be a stone fox that’s photogenic almost to a fault, but there’s definitely hop ..read more

No gay, bi, or queer man needs to be told that dating as a member of the LGBTQ community comes along with its own special set of challenges. However, dating as a gay man isn’t anywhere near as impossible as the rest of society seems to believe it is, so try not to get too discouraged. You just need to know what people are getting wrong as far as the whole experience so you can shrug off the misconceptions and get back to doing you. All gay men care about is sex. Don’t get us wrong. Sex is awesome. Gay men certainly love sex just as much as anyone else out there does, but it’s not all they c ..read more

If there’s one thing we can all agree on when it comes to gay dating, it’s that it can be really, really complicated. It’s not just about finding someone you’d potentially like to hook up with or give your time to either. The entire process from start to finish can be a major challenge, not to mention completely confusing at times. That’s exactly why dates you’re truly excited about are so nerve-wracking. Doubly so if you really like the guy and can picture even the possibility of a future with him! Here we’ll go over everything you need to know how to make a fantastic first date impression ..read more