Are You Running at the Right Pace?
Matt Norman » Emotional Health
by Matt Norman
1M ago
Our family took a “twilight nature hike” on a trip last year. What could have lasted 15 minutes lasted two hours due to the pace of the guide. “Please stay behind me,” he calmly repeated as we slowly proceeded through the complete darkness. Over and over again, he’d thoughtfully respond to a question or quietly shine his flashlight through a telescopic lens, revealing a beautiful insect or sleeping bird. I found myself becoming impatient at first. But then I decided to make an effort to calm myself to appreciate the hike. Soon enough, I was realizing how much I would have completely missed had ..read more
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The Four Rs of Dealing with Unwanted Thoughts
Matt Norman » Emotional Health
by Matt Norman
2M ago
I took time over the holidays to rest, get organized for the new year, and connect in meaningful ways with family. Having that time, though, opened up space for some unwanted thoughts too. Do you ever allow all your thoughts to flow, even the unwanted ones? Your insecurities, fears, selfish desires, resentments, and uncertainties? The question isn’t whether you have them; everyone has unwanted thoughts. A pause (like a holiday) or change in your circumstances might reveal them. What do you do with your unwanted thoughts? Recently, I’ve tried to practice the four Rs of dealing with unwanted th ..read more
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5 Lessons on Growing Your Real Riches
Matt Norman » Emotional Health
by Matt Norman
3M ago
Nat King Cole will remind us this month to be joyful, though life can be busy and hard, and our news feed reminds us of all that’s wrong in the world. This is why I love re-watching It’s a Wonderful Life each year. I need yet another voice to break through the cynicism, hurry and striving. As we reflect on 2023 and prepare for the new year, let’s consider five wonderful reminders from George Bailey. “No man is a failure who has friends.” While his full house of singing friends generously poured out donations in his time of need, George found this inscribed in a book from his guardian angel C ..read more
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Decide How Much Attention to Give Each of Your Thoughts
Matt Norman » Emotional Health
by Matt Norman
5M ago
I’m renting a log splitter this week. That’s probably a very Minnesotan thing to do. It’s used to divide large cross-sections of trees into logs to be used as firewood. Since I have a time limit on the rental, I need to decide how much effort to spend with each tree slice. Splitting the logs into fewer, skinnier pieces is a waste of the machine’s time and energy. Leaving the logs too thick is a missed opportunity to put the splitter’s capability to use. Just like logs going through a wood splitter, thoughts continuously pass through our minds every day. Dividing or analyzing thoughts too many ..read more
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Cure Your Case of the What Ifs
Matt Norman » Emotional Health
by Matt Norman
6M ago
My life has been full of terrible misfortunes, most of which never happened. I love that quote by Michel de Montaigne because I used to constantly worry about terrible misfortunes. I had a bad case of the What Ifs. Do you ever suffer from the What Ifs? Do you ruminate on questions like: What if I get sick or die? What if something bad happens to my kids? What if I don’t succeed? What if people don’t like me? What if this doesn’t work? What if this never ends? My old case of what if thinking recently resurfaced when I walked onto the tarmac at a small airport in Idaho. The plane we’d been as ..read more
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The Two Things to Give Up for Greater Joy and Purpose
Matt Norman » Emotional Health
by Matt Norman
1y ago
Today I walked my dog around our neighborhood through freezing rain, dirty snow and slushy puddles. Of course, my neighborhood has seen many more pleasant days and many more will come. Knowing that only made me want to escape to one of those days, either past or future.  However, I resisted the pull because I’ve given up “longing and rumination” for Lent. During Lent, many Christians “give up” or “take on” something as a reminder and representation of Christ’s sacrifice leading to Easter. It’s meant to strengthen your connection with God and create more space for Him in your life. In my l ..read more
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Dealing with the Anxiety That Comes from Leadership
Matt Norman » Emotional Health
by Matt Norman
1y ago
Anxiety is perhaps the most natural response to tension and change. I witness it when I encourage my kids to practice their instrument, or try to get someone to spend time on my project, or ask people to give money to a cause. They almost always react with some level of resistance and anxiety.  Leadership and influence are rarely easy. How do you deal with the anxiety swirling about when others are resisting your leadership and influence? We’ve all experienced it. If you’re trying to offer any level of leadership and positive influence around you, people will get uncomfortable. With any ..read more
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Thought About Your 2023 Personal Goals Yet?
Matt Norman » Emotional Health
by Matt Norman
1y ago
At age 17, Kirstie Ennis enlisted in the United States Marine Corps, following in her parents’ footsteps. On tour in Afghanistan in 2012, enemy fire shot down her helicopter. Six people died. She barely lived.  The physical and emotional pain got so intense in the years that followed that she attempted suicide. Then, in 2016, she made the decision to move beyond her past and her limitations. She had her left leg amputated to end the chronic pain and began climbing mountains. And not just any mountains. Since 2017 she has scaled the highest mountains on each of six continents. Next spring ..read more
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Emotional Regulation: The Key to Building Trust, Influence and Wellbeing
Matt Norman » Emotional Health
by Matt Norman
1y ago
Here’s an obvious truth worth contemplating: Many times a day, you and I experience emotions while we’re interacting with others. We feel frustrated, annoyed, anxious, angry, nervous, excited, jealous, resentful, disappointed…  The way we act and communicate amidst our emotional states will impact our trust, influence and wellbeing. It Can Be HARD to Regulate Emotions I’d just had a long, frustrating battle with my computer. Now, I was in the car driving my family to the fair. It had been a very stressful day and I just wanted to get to there, so I punched “Minnesota State Fair” into Goog ..read more
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Responding Rather than Reacting to Life’s Inevitable Challenges
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by Matt Norman
1y ago
In any leadership role, whether you’re running a family, a team, or an organization — or even in running your own life — there are three inevitables you’ll encounter: Difficult people Stressful events Hard choices As you face each of these, you have a choice: You can either respond or you can react.  Responding is controlled, productive and usually calm. Reacting is…not.  The choice you make will dictate your personal wellbeing, relationships, and overall effectiveness. My good friend who runs a chain of bakeries is a great example of responding vs. reacting. As a baseline, he’s d ..read more
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