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Welcome to Surviving Infidelity. If you're here, it's because you are surviving, or have survived, infidelity in a relationship that you thought was life-long.
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6h ago
Broken up for 2.5 weeks now and his poison is slowly leaving my mind. I can see things how they were now.
He wasn’t in love with me for a very long time. Years honestly. He might have had love for me but now I can finally see he wasn’t IN love with me. He didn’t want to be on his own and he didn’t want to deal with what it takes to fix the relationship. So instead he mentally checked out. And kept me strung along. It wasn’t right. It did a lot of damage to me. Wondering constantly how come I put in so much effort and nothing changes? Throwing myself at him when he was already over it.
He’s se ..read more
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6h ago
We are in our mid thirties. I knew he was having an affair but I didn’t know how young she was, or that it had gone beyond emotional cheating until this morning. For weeks we had been trying to reconcile, and the entire time he was still seeing her. When I confronted him, obviously there was a lot of arguing, but he snapped when I called him a predator. He threatened to kill me. I told him he wouldn’t do that, and I meant it, but I guess that was somehow more insulting and he was enraged. He tried to kill me via strangulation. He’s in jail now and I’m safe for the time being, hopefully the co ..read more
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6h ago
I found out my wife of 15 years (3 kids) was having an affair. Long story short it's been the worst time. She was abusive and controlling in all ways possible. Very much some mental health issues going on and I thought things would get better one day. The past years the constant fights were her accusing me of cheating with zero evidence, like every month someone new. I thought she had a delusional jealousy issue I read about. The zero evidence just meant I was good at hiding it.
Plenty of red flags but this week I installed her Instagram account on to my app and sure enough she is in a romant ..read more
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6h ago
my ex went on 4 dates with AP. i have started seeing someone new and we have been on 4 dates as well. I am starting to really like this person and our time together. When my ex got caught, he insisted he didn’t have feelings for her. I couldn’t believe it because if you keep meeting someone again and again and talk to them everyday, you do have feelings for them. I am on the other side of it all, I can see the lies more clearly. The betrayal is bigger now but the pain is lesser. I am grateful that this happened before my relationship goes on to the next stage. I have blocked him and decided t ..read more
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6h ago
Can anyone please share a link where I can download the book for free?
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6h ago
So having spent a year through therapy piecing everything together i realise, that some major life events were tainted or ruined by my stbx husband.
Im devastated i cant get them back.
Whilst we rubbed along really well in the day to day, which i suppose outweighs the betrayals, it hurts.
Engagement: i found out after the engagement he sexted someone
30th birthday and wedding: i found out 3 months before my birthday he contacted an ex online flirting, saying "i do love her but wish i was ready to settle sooner"
Pregnancy: in the back of my mind i thought it best not to snoop as i was vulnera ..read more
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6h ago
I need to know what I’m supposed to do…how could someone that just told me how much he missed me and loved me do this to me. How am I ever going to trust anyone ever again.
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13h ago
I (35f) am struggling to continue to share an apt with my ex wife who I believe is in a poly relationship with two married women who live in another city. My former wife and I also have a young child.
It’s a long story of how it all happened, but she went to visit her AP(s…?) this past weekend and it felt like such a final blow to me and our relationship, and also to how co parenting could have been. It was a very painful weekend for me.
She just got back and is already only focusing on her next visits (which are now monthly…not sure who is paying for it).
She and I are sorting out housing an ..read more
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13h ago
I know there might be something wrong with your life. Life is not treating you well, relationship hasn’t been working out as you anticipated, you feel miserable and stressed. You don’t feel like having sex with your partner anymore, because your not getting the same satisfaction as before. Instead of communicating with them and figuring something out, you took the easy way out and chose short term satisfaction. I’m speaking to those people who actually cares about their partner and want a future with them. That is the not the way to go, remember what you two have been building towards, do you ..read more
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13h ago
Hi everyone. How do you start with dating after being cheated on? I’m an average girl, and I’ve seen beautiful fit models who are perfect be cheated on. Being cheated on once i feel like i should give up hope for a romantic life.
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