My sister(17) came home from school, early due to testing. She told me that there was a package she opened up and it was apparently for my dad shipped from New York. She told me that it was a nice little white Dior gift bag with a nicely packaged boxed with ribbons tied to it. She told me that she thought it was for our mom and didn't want to ruin the surprise. I was curious and asked if she has any idea what it was and she told me that it was a small 5x5 box and it was "kinda heavy". Knowing my mom, who hates surprises and knows exactly what she wants as gifts, I asked her if she asked my da ..read more

During the first year of our marriage my wife asked me if a friend of hers could stay with us as his lease was up and he was moving away at the end of the month. He needed a place to stay for a few weeks and would pay our mortgage. I agreed. I’ve met the guy and he is cool. The guy is someone she worked with. He is gay. I know he is gay for a fact. I’ve met his now husband and we have all hung out together. I have zero concern that he’s Bi. He is objectively a good dude and welcome in my home to this day. Things went well for the first couple weeks until I started to notice somewhat of an obs ..read more

I have successfully catfished several of my friends boyfriends and they cheated every time. Do you want me to dm your boyfriend on instagram to see if he will cheat? Just Venmo me ten dollars and I will dm him and send you screenshots of everything. Dm me ladies submitted by /u/Mission-Fishing666 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Hi all. I really hoped I wouldn’t have to post here like ever lol, but here I am unfortunately… :( I (21F) got married to my husband (20M) back in October 2021 when i was 9 months pregnant with our first child. We had the wedding planned before we got pregnant, but we moved it up instead of pushing it back, just so it would make the paperwork easier to fill out at the hospital after birth. Our daughter (who is now 2 ½ years old) was born less than two weeks after. For the entirety of our relationship, having gotten together in May 2018, there has been some level of infidelity. The first time ..read more

i had a feeling my boyfriend was cheating on me a week prior to finding out and had asked him multiple times if he was and he reassured me that he wasn’t. i caught him cheating over a month ago. he had found some girl’s number on twitter and reached out to her to tell her he found her attractive and shared non explicit photos of himself to which she didn’t respond to. when i confronted him about it he told me he was bored at work and texted her and immediately felt guilty so he blocked her number. we mutually agreed to try and fix our relationship and move on but i’m feeling paranoid and unha ..read more

I know it’s soon but update from my post yesterday: https://www.reddit.com/r/Infidelity/comments/1c56lm7/she\_didnt\_cheat\_but\_this\_doesnt\_feel\_good/ Thank you all for the replies I appreciate them. We’ve done a lot of talking today. First, he’s not a coworker or her boss but he is someone she'll inevitably see through work. She still won’t tell me his name and says she won’t tell his wife because she wants to protect her own reputation, I think that's shitty. Anyway biggest update is she showed me some of the texts and yeah they didn’t fuck but she’s fucking naive if she thinks he was i ..read more

I(29F) recently broke up with my bf(35M) because he cheated on me. He had his initial shock to me finding out and later a lot of remorse. It was obviously too late and there isn't going to be any reconciliation. Problem is, we lived together along with my sister and brother. When I broke up with him, he was at his parents' in another state and during that time I have had all the breakdowns and crying spurts everything. But it also gave me the time to decide firmly about what I am going to do next. We have two rooms. One where my siblings stay and the other that we as a couple occupied. Now, a ..read more

Over the weekend, for the first time ever and after finding strong probable cause to do so (a panty vibrator that can be controlled remotely via an app arrived in the mail Thursday) I invaded the privacy of my longtime live-in girlfriend by accessing her iPad. What I found was absolutely devastating. I apologize in advance for the length of this post, which essentially turned into journaling for me. I welcome any advice on how to best proceed from here. I (41M) met my partner (33F) online in 2014 when I was 31 and she was 23. We lived about 13 hours away from each other. We hit it off right a ..read more

I (20m) have been dating my girlfriend (20f) for 6months now. she has been having missing screen time and being weird about apps. and she can’t explain what she did or what she was doing. and during this time period she has lied to me about just about anything there is to lie about. such as guys in her past and things like that. and recently i caught her watching porn, and recently we haven’t been having sex. so she has been choosing me over porn for weeks. and i also found out that she was snapping guys the first 3 weeks into our relationship. but she never tells me anything about it or neve ..read more

We’ve been together for 7,5 years when it all began. There were occasional red flags from the start, but since I was inexperienced with relationships, I didn’t see them as such. Over the years I believe to have developed a trauma bond with her, since I suffer from anxiety and I’m highly sensitive and she didn’t always treat me well. Especially when she was angry or emotional. For example she once threatened to throw me out after a petty argument, was sometimes mocking me, when I had occasional performance issues in the bedroom (before I met her I never had any) and also never had a good relat ..read more