Everything you need to know about attending Sydney Mardi Gras in 2025 including the best parties to go to, where to see the big Parade, and oh such much more! Sydney during Mardi Gras every February/March feels like the entire gay community descends on the city. We've been several times to Sydney, which is super gay at the best of times, but during Mardi Gras, it's something else! Mardi Gras Sydney is a month-long event that coincides with the other Carnival/Mardi Gras events taking place around the world in February/March. It usually kicks off with the super popular Bondi Beach Party a ..read more

Wondering what's the best place for a romantic gay honeymoon? We've put together the places we think make for a top gay honeymoon destination based on our first-hand experience as a gay couple. Every year we are humbled to see more nations legalizing gay marriage. It always excites us because it marks a sort of ‘gold standard' achievement for LGBTQ rights. We have our own gay marriage live tracker, which we update every time a new country legalizes gay marriage. The best part about it is that that particular country will inevitably see a boost in LGBTQ tourism, particularly from gay couples ..read more

Have you ever wondered what gay life in Bhutan is like? We spoke to a couple of inspiring LGBTQ people in Thimphu who gave us their unique perspective on what it's like growing up queer in modern-day Bhutan. “What's your most memorable travel experience?”… is a question we often get asked. Well, our gay trip to Bhutan in early 2024 is certainly up there! Bhutan blew our minds in every way. No seriously: the national dish is a spicy chili cheese stew. In actual fact, ALL food in Bhutan is heavily laden with chili that it literally blew our minds (and taste buds!) Beyond the sapid food and pun ..read more

Join a group of like-minded men this summer for a naked trip in Gran Canaria with the gay-owned and managed company, Everything To Sea. Disclaimer: This post is sponsored by Everything To Sea. As always, all opinions are our own. One week with men naked, everywhere. A dazzling array of activities, from the most famous things to do to things off the beaten path. This summer, our favorite gay tour company, Everything To Sea, will host a fabulous tip in Gran Canaria in a salacious mansion! This will be the stuff of dreams…wet dreams, of course! A disco that’s doubles as a dungeon. A cedar sauna ..read more

Our detailed gay travel guide to Bhutan, a country clouded in mystery, wanders, and has recently opened up and embraced LGBTQ tourism. Imagine Wakanda but in Asia! A progressive nation steeped in centuries-old traditions, resembling a rich tapestry that has been carefully preserved, reminiscent of the fictional Wakanda's seclusion. Gradually, year by year, Bhutan is opening up even more to the outside world, much like when Black Panther began to open the doors of Wakanda… Bhutan is like nothing we've experienced before, and we've been around! The culture has strong Tibetan influences, partic ..read more

Join a group of like-minded men this September for a naked trip in France with the awesome gay-owned and managed company, Everything To Sea. Disclaimer: This post is sponsored by Everything To Sea. As always, all opinions are our own. One week with men naked everywhere! Since its inception in 2018, Everything To Sea, a trailblazing enterprise catering to the LGBTQ+ community, has grown exponentially. The company now offers an expanded selection of exclusively male, clothing-optional experiences, with a particular focus on Thailand, France, and Spain. Building upon the triumph of their Privat ..read more

These are all my nuggets of wisdom and travel tips that I wish I could impart to a younger me before embarking on that first big trip 20 years ago! I'll never forget that first time I went on my first trip with Stefan over 15 years. We were a young, twinkle-eyed twentysomething couple, brimming with excitement! In those early days, we scoured the net for the best tips on staying safe when traveling and invested in every travel hack gadget we could think of (the memory of our trusty money belts snugly hidden under our trousers comes to mind)… We both agree that those early days backpacking in ..read more

These are our 5 favorite gay underwear brands that we love to rock when taking a sexy thirst trap for the ‘gram. Let's be real, who doesn't appreciate a good thirst trap? Especially when it's the irresistible Maluma flexing in his underwear selfies! I'll bet if you open up any gay guy's Insta, their Explorer tab will be bursting with photos of thirsty guys, a splash of travel inspo, and a sprinkling of cat reels (or maybe that's just mine…). We're not gonna lie, we both love creating a tongue-in-cheek thirst snap. We're fully aware we're soon approaching an age where we'll fondly look back a ..read more

Our detailed gay travel guide to New Zealand following our big road trip through the land that formed the backdrops of the Lord of the Rings movies! “Seby, one day we’re going to go to New Zealand and will run through the Shire in Hobbiton just like Frodo and Sam!” The Lord of the Rings gave us our first flavor of New Zealand. The rolling green hills and breathtaking landscapes provided LOTR Director Peter Jackson with the ideal backdrop to recreate Tolkien’s Middle Earth. However, there is so much more to New Zealand than Hobbits, elves, orcs, and Gandalf. Those rugged landscapes that inspi ..read more

Read about our unique experience diving with manta rays in the rich pristine waters of Lady Elliot Island in the Great Barrier Reef in Australia. “Seby, why are you crying?” We’d just spent an entire day swimming with manta rays and I was feeling elated and quite emotional. “I’m just so happy, Stefan, we finally saw them!” You see, I’ve dreamt of swimming with these giant majestic creatures in the wild since I was a little boy. Our entire Down Under trip was planned around visiting Lady Elliot Island: about a year before this trip took place, I was up late one evening researching the best pl ..read more