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Hello Lifectioners.. A blog post about thought and analyzation..Might seem boring or could be assumed to revolve around the same kind of ..read more
                                                                                                           The word Positivity has variable meanings in all our lives but a constant belief that positivity means endless happiness and contentment. But, with the changing times and evolving mindsets, the concept of satisfaction and positivity has been changing and being dependent to our very own companion, Social Media. Instead of enjoying the present, our happiness depends on the Likes and Loves we receive on our posts on social media, determining the level of happiness.  Measuring your definition of fun with your peers, influencers and celebrities is not going to help you do anything but think how much better you can do in life. Complaining how alone and miserable you are and ranting about how your routine could be interesting by comparing it with other people is not a positive perception. Meanwhile, the belief that staying away from social media will lead to endless positivity is a myth. Social media isn’t our whole life, but a fraction of our lives which we tend to forget and let it control us.Rhonda Byrne quotes actively in her bestseller,  The Secret that “life is not happening to you, you are creating it”. Similarly, in  reality the concept of positivity is way beyond any of these representative platforms. It is a practice, a routine, a lifestyle, a habit independent of social media and comparisons.Key to positivity is to know where to draw the line between real and reel life. When we are young, everything is exciting and new, and all of this pretentious happiness seems to matter so much. We care so much about what others may think of us and let anything affect our positive mindset in a fraction of seconds. But as we get older with the benefit of experience, we notice that most of these sort of things have little lasting impact on our lives. “Calmness amongst chaos is a sign of emotional maturity”You only live once.Make sure you don't waste it in seeking validation from strangers.Action Steps / Take aways1, Restrict the usage of social media using various timers.2. Unplug once a while.3. Posting everything online while socialising is being unsocial.4. Do not make your happiness depend on the likes and loves receive on your social media.Socialising on social media while socialising is being unsocial.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Please feel free to leave a comment below or contact me at lifectionery@gmail.com and follow us on Facebook -   https://www.facebook.com/lifectionery/  and also follow us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lifectionery/ And if you wanna drop some suggestions you can feel free to comment or mail us. We'll try our best to reply as fast as we can.Subscribe to Lifectionery – The Art of making life more delicious… by Email ..read more
It’s not enough to be busy; so are the ants. The question is: what are we busy about?” ~Henry David Thoreau.If there is an area in your ..read more

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