And we got nothing to be guilty of…
Luck Fupus | A lupus blog
by LF
4y ago
Now that I’ve made my grand entrance back into the blogging world, I guess I got some serious explaining to do. Where the hell have I been over the last 10 months? Ironically, as I was blogging this time last year on the perils of being a 37 y/o divorced, infertile, nippleless woman living with several incurable diseases whilst trying to date after two disastrous relationships, I was falling in love. With two people. It’s true. I’m in what feels like the only healthy romantic relationship I’ve had in my adult life, with, quite frankly, the most wonderful, kind, loving, patient man I’ve ever me ..read more
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…I still believe that people are really good at heart.
Luck Fupus | A lupus blog
by LF
4y ago
Lord have mercy, I can already hear the eyerolls. I know, I know, how utterly cliche of the Jewish girl to quote Anne Frank at a time like this, but hear me out. For the past 3 years I’ve been working with my therapist doing intense EMDR trauma therapy. I knew I was angry, but I never realized the depth of my anger.  Marla, what in the ever loving fuck are you talking about and why are you clogging my feed with this nonsense? I said bear with me as I try to make sense of this; just like you, I’m trying to understand the destruction. I’d had this deep rooted anger my entire life, thinking ..read more
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I’m so terrified of no one else but me…
Luck Fupus | A lupus blog
by LF
5y ago
Hi my loves! Opening up and sharing dark secrets, even to those you love and trust, is challenging. It brings feelings of uneasiness from the deepest corners of your brain, wondering if that person (or persons) is going to judge you, think less of you, give up on you. Despite this blog of mine, opening up is not my strong suit. Speaking at the Coalition for Compassionate Care of California So obviously it makes total sense that in April of 2018, I got up in front of 200-300 strangers at a conference and spoke my truth; that I’ve been living my entire life with complex PTSD due to years of me ..read more
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Rendevous then I’m through with you…
Luck Fupus | A lupus blog
by LF
5y ago
Remember in my last post about dating I started off saying that dating is stupid? Dating is stupid. Clearly, my opinion hasn’t changed. My biggest problem with dating is that I’m not good at it; I have no desire to juggle relations with more than one gentleman at a time. If a first date goes well and that turns into second and third dates, etc., I end up being in what I refer to as a pseudo-relationship, where I’m not entirely sure it’s got long-term potential, but you’ve piqued my interest enough for me to want to spend time with you and get to know you better. And it’s usually at that point ..read more
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Are you who you want to be?
Luck Fupus | A lupus blog
by LF
5y ago
Avid reader, I must confess, I’ve lost my mojo. Not sure what my deal is, but for someone whose career did a 180 (or came to a complete halt, as the case may be), I am BUSY. Like, CrAZy busy. I’m not complaining, but I look at my (kick ass) planner and just wonder how any of this would be even possible if I were working full time. It’s been a whirlwind of amazing opportunity after amazing opportunity, and somewhere in between there have been SOOO many doctor’s appointments, sometimes 2 in one day. I’m exhausted, but still managing to keep on truckin. You may recall in early June, I participate ..read more
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It’s just another Manic Monday
Luck Fupus | A lupus blog
by LF
5y ago
I cannot believe June is upon us, summer officially starts in 20 days. I feel like my planner was opened to February, I skipped passed March and April, blinked once or twice, and here we are. I seems like I was just bitching about the all the massive amount of snow, and now I’m going through sunscreen faster than you can say basal cell carcinoma. I’m not going to have much presence on the interwebs this week, so much going on. It’s mostly boring doctor stuff, but, I feel like I can tell you about that “exciting opportunity” I received last week. Later this morning I’ll be over in Philly at the ..read more
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What ya gonna do with all that breast?
Luck Fupus | A lupus blog
by LF
5y ago
Big shocker, I failed the blog challenge. I have no discipline, it’s a wonder that I even bother. I was going strong for three, read it, THREE days in a row, and then I ran out of gas. Actually, it was really nice out last Saturday, and I went to go visit my friend Melissa. And then Easter, and then a death in the family, and then I just…. gave… up. Sigh…. moving right along. When I had my double mastectomy on December 1st, the plan was to go ahead with the second surgery in the middle to end of March. As you know, plans changed and I developed a seroma and severe infection. I wouldn’t wish th ..read more
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It’s gonna be May…
Luck Fupus | A lupus blog
by LF
5y ago
MAY IS LUPUS AWARENESS MONTH!! I always roll my eyes, yet giggle on the inside, on May 1st when my Facebook feed is inundated with Justin Timberlake’s “It’s Gonna Be May” meme. Yet here I am with it plastered on my blog to kick off Lupus Awareness Month. So to start Lupus Awareness Month off, I thought it would be beneficial to share an article that was passed along to me providing a comprehensive overview of lupus. Because how can I spend the month of May raising lupus awareness if I’m not at least giving you an idea of what the fuck it is. So my loves, it’s a short but oh so sweet p ..read more
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I’m the war of head versus heart…
Luck Fupus | A lupus blog
by LF
5y ago
No doubt those asshholes in the picture are ignoring each other and swiping right and left… Dating is stupid. There, I said it. Sorry not sorry. One of the last things my Mom-Mom said to me was, “Shayna Punim, if you become a young widow like me (she was 50 when my grandfather died) or get divorced, don’t get remarried. Just have lots of lovers like I did.” Wise words from a wise woman. She also told me to save $5 from every paycheck and to moisturize every night before going to bed. Why start listening now? Getting back out there was daunting, but I knew that unless I wanted to spend ..read more
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Thank U, next…
Luck Fupus | A lupus blog
by LF
5y ago
OK, so that’s a quote from Kate Welles, the character played by Famke Janssen in the (highly underrated!) movie, Love and Sex. Ahhhh, the Wild World of Dating in 2019. It sure has changed a lot since I met my ex-husband in 2004. These days, no one meets organically; it’s swipe right, swipe left, something about coffee, Cupid, a bagel, and plenty of fish on Match.com. It’s fucking exhausting. People, I AM TIRED. A bit dramatic, but I’m sure you get the point. It’s been 3 years since I ended my marriage, and I’ve had two relationships that turned into total dumpster fires. I can’t poi ..read more
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