pretty much the title, my 18M girlfriend 19F doesn't want to do anything sexual anymore, we've been dating for almost a year now (may 27th is our year), and we started getting sexual within the first two months and it was just on from there, almost every day we did at least something sexual, whether it be sexting, sex, nudes, or just random flashing, we always did something sexual. I have a really high sex drive, and I was sure she did too, because for one she stated that she did, and because of the things we did. But last November she said that she had no desire to talk about anything sexual ..read more

We have been together for 4 years. Love her to death. I used to really spoil her because we were long distance. We moved in together last fall and around Nov I noticed that she asked for a lot. I think that I was too busy with school and work to notice but now that my schedule changed and we have more time together, I really noticed how much I do for her that doesn't seem right. If she wants something, I'll go get it for her. I do all the shopping, all the cleaning, she has neglected her chores for a month now and the floor is disgusting. I drive her everywhere which I'm ok with cause I'm muc ..read more

We got married 2 years ago and dated 3 years before that. I do not have some super buff body or anything, but I do go to the gym relatively often and watch what I eat. My wife has always been a bit chubby, but she is still very beautiful. And that isn't just my view, she was known in our friend group before we dated as a very beautiful woman. ​ Regardless, she has an incredible amount of insecurity over my body. She wants me to cover up in public basically. She constantly presumes people are looking at me sexually. She sort of chastised me about wearing a sleeveless shirt to go play basketbal ..read more

Throwaway account for reasons. I (32f) can't stop thinking about how my spouse (37m) is surely bored with me, must be sick of being with me (at least sexually if not completely) and how it's only a matter of time until I find proof of this for certain and/or he leaves. I know it's insane but that's the train of thought I'm fighting with right now. Things that I know for sure are feeding this fear: - He follows /altgirls and similar subreddits - His IG FYP features super sexual models and kink things, I've seen it on his screen a few times and he's also shown me (with an "I don't understand wh ..read more

My girlfriend (F, 26) and I (F, 25) have been together for about 6 months now. I'm in law school and she's supportive. In April of 2025 her best friend is getting married out of state (will require flying) and she wants/needs for me to be there, which I get and understand. The thing is, the wedding is on the 27th (Sunday) of April and my final exams begin the 30th. She messaged me stating to please mark the date of the wedding and the friday/saturday before for travel. She acknowledged that she's aware that the weekend is close to when my exams begin and that she'd take care of flights and ac ..read more

I 23F have had 3 relationships now, one immature one in high school, one 4.5 year one throughout college, and have now been dating my current boyfriend 23M for 5 months now. I love our relationship, not only are we madly in love but we truly are just the best of friends. But I just feel like there’s a lack of romance and I’ve felt that in all of my relationships. No boyfriend has ever written me a love letter, made me something sentimental, gotten me a random gift just because, gotten me flowers without me having to ask, and no boyfriend has ever even posted me on social media. I know it may ..read more

My (31) boyfriend (35) of almost 6 months told me he loved me first. He has told me he loves me a handful of times but once I told him I loved him over text and he just said 'thanks' and when I told him I loved him over the phone he just said 'you too'. Am I being silly for being upset about this? I haven't mentioned it to him because I don't know if I'm being insecure. We have a lovely relationship and he acts like he loves and cares about me through his actions, so I'm trying to focus on that but I really adore being told that someone loves and cares about me. TL;DR: My boyfriend doesn't al ..read more

My (M19) girlfriend's (F19) manager (M idk his age) let's her drive his car when they're at work together. She brought this up unprovoked and also talks about how funny he is unprovoked. It's worth mentioning that she's a good liar (so she thinks) and in the past I caught her in lies then she starts crying lmao. Like during sex she said another guys name and I asked her about it and she denied it, then mentioned that was her boss's name. She told me that she said "don't stop" during sex, I know for a fact she said another guys name. Then a few months later I brought it up and she said that's ..read more

I [14 FTM, (if thats relevant)] used to have very violent autistic meltdowns (i dont wanna go into all the reasons but for context i'm very mentally ill and school was traumatic, theyd happen a lot after school btw). I dont remember everything that happened in them but I was so fucking awful. I remember hitting and punching my parents and telling them I hated them. They had to run away and lock themselves in other rooms because I would chase them. My mum had bruises on her legs from me kicking her. They reacted and did some mean shit as well but I was the instigator of the violence. I don't k ..read more

So theres this guy I met after moving to a new country as a student whose behaviour seemed a off to me and a little fishy.So he says he is very interested in me romantically but he went away with a girl suddenly right before valentines day and said he will have dinner with me after he is back. no contact while on the trip. tagged the girl in stories, which he didnt hide from me. and rescheduled on dinner after he came back. Obviously I have been distancing myself. However after that he has been continuously saying that he has something to tell me and he needs to meet me in person for this. I ..read more