After Narcissistic Abuse
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ANA was developed out of sheer desperation of the human spirit clinging to it’s last bit of hope. A blog about light, life ,love after narcissistic abuse.
After Narcissistic Abuse
3h ago
Narcissists are always remodeling, redeveloping, and improving their own image at someone else’s expense through their acts of back-stabbing, triangulating, smearing, putting others down, constant negativity, betrayal, lies, extortion, etc. We must ALWAYS consider that friendship, care, or love should never hurt a person nor take them down a road of destruction. From my Book ..read more
After Narcissistic Abuse
17h ago
The truth about this relationship you had with a Narcissist. The Narcissist in your life manipulated and controlled you into a state of desperation for their approval or the desire for affirmation and reciprocal love – but there never was love or a relationship – THAT was a trap they set to secure you as ..read more
After Narcissistic Abuse
21h ago
Empower yourself with these words: We can NEVER engage with their chaos and conflict because they are aimed directly at diminishing us and managing us down to SUPPORT their agenda! Narcissists are masters of spin and diversionary tactics to drive their “conflicted reality” home through brute verbal force, emotional dismissiveness, psychological games, and delusional reasoning ..read more
After Narcissistic Abuse
1d ago
It is a daily thing when it concerns this abuse and over time the target/victim becomes numb to the fact that every day they are being managed down to feel completely worthless, having issues, isolated, silenced, fearful, the ‘PROBLEM,’ and completely confused and LOST! There is level upon level of this gaslighting piling up on ..read more
After Narcissistic Abuse
2d ago
It is very unlikely that anyone (even those people you tried to explain Narcissism to) HAVEN’T ever experienced someone who has Narcissistic Personality Disorder – they were just charmed into believing they were NORMAL. Narcissists are ALWAYS flying under the radar with many disguises. They are the most CHARMING charmers, and just so nice to ..read more
After Narcissistic Abuse
2d ago
FACT – this is not/was not a NORMAL relationship by any means – it is an attack on our world and life by a personality disordered NARCISSIST. They start their attack by using extreme CHARM to fool us into believing in them AND THEIR AGENDA, and then they start attacking our well-being after they have ..read more
After Narcissistic Abuse
2d ago
A Narcissist’s abuse extends FAR beyond the day-to-day interactions with them! They take that chaos out into OUR personal world and life to cause MORE harm. They use whatever they can AGAINST us be it private information we shared, and they embellish, or complete lies to create triangulation or ‘divide and conquer.’ They do this ..read more
After Narcissistic Abuse
3d ago
A Narcissist never looks inward in a manner to see that they have a personality disorder, or that their world is built on lies and appearances – that is merely a clinical definition for us to sort of understand them. Furthermore, they never admit to being wrong, doing anything wrong, or having wronged or destroying ..read more
After Narcissistic Abuse
3d ago
A NARCISSIST’S WORDS ARE THEIR WEAPONS and they are deadly — so completely disengage with them because their conversations are diversions to take us to a point where we feel diminished, worthless, wrong, or anything to keep us as confused and controlled! Talking, arguing, or discussing anything with a Narcissist is like being on a ..read more
After Narcissistic Abuse
4d ago
One of my Favorite articles and one worth reposting/repeating!! Narcissists are completely amoral or just numb to the existence of real empathy, integrity, and morality. BUT they pretend to have these all important qualities as we have all seen as it concerns the MANY facades they create that are loaded with copycat or stolen traits ..read more