If you’re considering breaking up with your girlfriend – but you still love her – I empathize. The decision to break up or stay together can be life changing, for better or worse.  Most mainstream blogs will give you flowery advice like: “Trust your gut,” but sometimes your gut is just wrong.  As a man... The post Should I Break Up With My Girlfriend Even Though I Still Love Her? appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

Someone told me the other day, “Tony, thanks for writing stuff for newbies. Some of the other coaches write such complex, meta advice.” The reason I write newbie stuff is because picking up women is a base, ape-like desire that any man can learn with a basic understanding of female psychology, and a tiny bit... The post Why I Don’t Write More “Meta” PUA Type Content appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

If you’re a nice guy and can never seem to get laid, then read my story and learn, young padawan.  When I was a lost soul in my twenties there was a hot 24-year-old barista I had the blue balls for.  It was one of those cafes that only hired hot girls, so, of course,... The post 9 Reasons Nice Guys Never Get Laid appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

If you’re looking for the magic words that make any girl want you, look no further you cheeky devil. I have your magic pill right here. When I first discovered you could use language to seduce women, it blew my world wide open. I found a method called “Speed Seduction;” a pickup style invented by... The post 7 Sneaky Words That Make Any Girl Want You appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

Like most people, I’m fascinated by AI, and also concerned.  While this blog primarily teaches men how to get with women, my content goes far deeper.  The deeper stuff doesn’t pay the bills, as most readers are here from Google, looking for the perfect text message so they can have their balls sucked with zero... The post Things are About to Get WEIRD appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

I have a huge announcement. I just launched my free men’s community over on Skool.com.  In this community I host free courses, free webinars, and it’s a great space for talking about everything from pickup, dating, relationships, sex, health, wealth, and masculine philosophy.  I have free courses on creating indirect openers, holding better conversations, free... The post Free Dating Courses Here (2024) appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

At some point the term “Game” went into hibernation and was replaced with “Rizz.” It’s often used like this: “Hey, did you rizz up Amanda?” or “That guy’s got mad rizz, yo!” And since I’ve got mad rizz, I may as well share some of my hippest rizz lines so you can chat up all... The post Smooth as F#$K Rizz Lines for Getting Girls appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

We’ve all heard that women hate nice guys. But is it true? And why? Is it because all women are cold-hearted?  Women don’t necessarily “hate” nice guys, they just aren’t turned on romantically by them.  I used to be a typical nice guy. I mean, if you got to know me, you would probably say:... The post 13 Nice Guy Behaviors Women Hate appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

In 2023 I removed Infield training, or bootcamps, from my coaching products.  Why? Well because I’m 45 years old, and after teaching hundreds of infield bootcamps, I’m a bit tired of it. But also, I realized I can get the same, if not better results for clients through long term mentoring – via weekly calls.... The post Are Dating Coach Bootcamps Worth it? appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

This is part 1 of a sex guide to help all the men who suck at sex. So if you want to be better at pleasuring your woman then keep reading. Sex is a Skill Mmmm, sex is awesome! You can seduce all the women you want, but if you can’t make her come (at... The post Sex: How To Not Suck at Sex (For Men) appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more